I’ve reblogged this so many times because I truly think every parent should involve themselves with what their child enjoys.
Not to mention this is an act of solidarity. He’s saying “even if the entire world is against you, I’m on your side.” Which I think is important for a kid to know. He’s refusing to be a bully to his child, even if he doesn’t understand.
I work at Hot Topic and we had a white suburban dad in who was buying matching heavy metal/screamo band shirts for him and his teenage daughter and said “To be honest, I think this stuff sounds like garbage, but she likes it so we listen to it together and we’re going to the concert for Christmas.” And it was just really heartwarming to see him so involved in his child’s life and validating her interests.
I WILL NEVER NOT REBLOG THIS.
“I don’t get it, but I love how you love it” is one of the best things anyone can say. My entire family asks questions about comics because they want to share my enthusiasm for them and support me, even though they otherwise wouldn’t pay attention to the industry at all.
I get questions all the time about the things i like, weather it is bands or youtubers from my mom, but when I go over to my dads it is so obvious that he does not understand or know why I like it but it makes me happy knowing that he tries.
I love how gay people do it too. Just… really? You’re literally saying the same shit to bisexuals that straight people say to you, and you don’t see the hypocrisy?
If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.
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If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.
Why is this a thing like really? Homosextual people of ALL beings should understand that you like what you like and if the answer multiple choice then that’s just more love to go around non?
BY REBLOGGING THIS YOU ARE SAYING THAT YOUR BLOG IS COMPLETELY ACCEPTING OF BI FOLKS!!! BISEXUAL PEOPLE ARE PART OF THE LGBT+ COMMUNITY AND IF YOU DISAGREE, PLEASE UNFOLLOW ME
You think the LGBTQ+ community would be the most understanding…
The calendar is as spectacular as you, @markiplier 🙂 And in case anyone was interested in a fun story, here’s my 54 y/o mother’s commentary on some of the pages (because she happened to be standing next to me when I got the package and INSISTED I let her see what it looked like *facepalm*).
Her final verdict is that she’s impressed that the calendars raised so much money for charity and also I’m a funny, horny nerd
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“The Dickless Wonder” I low-key want to call Mark that now
They’re not going to rat you out. They’re going to adjust your anesthesia dosage so you don’t WAKE UP IN THE MIDDLE OF SURGERY.
Some anesthesiologists will refuse to put you under if you’ve smoked cannabis within the past 24 hours – and let’s be clear, this is NOT because they’re morally against it – it’s because THC and anesthetic react in unpredictable ways and waking up in the middle of surgery is slightly less of a concern than SLIPPING INTO A COMA OR DYING.
So there’s that.
Yes, this too. Should have included this. It just wasn’t on my mind when I made the original post because my mind was full of NOPE NOPE NOPE after, you guessed it, one of my patients woke up in the middle of her surgery because she didn’t tell her anesthesia team she used marijuana.
For friends not in the spoonie community, this is about the CDC’s recent guidelines that attempt to combat drug addiction in America by severely restricting access to opioid medications for ALL patients except for terminal cancer patients.
Without opioid pain medications, I would have had to quit working and go on disability nine years before I did.
Without opioid pain medications I would have been housebound and dependent on caregivers for another 10 years after that.
Without opioid pain medications I will be less active, more sedentary, and more sick.
The CDC says opioids don’t work for chronic pain; they’re wrong. They don’t work for some chronic pain. They don’t cure chronic pain. But they make life liveable for millions of chronic pain patients. Estimates of chronic pain sufferers in America range from a low of 39 million to a high of 110 million. That low-water mark excluded people with intermittent chronic pain, like endometriosis or migraine, as well as omitting people with neurogenic pain. Most reasonable guesses put the number at 70–80 million.
The cure for drug abuse and addiction has nothing to do with restricting pain patients’ access to medication, or forcing them to give up what quality of life they have managed to attain through having their pain managed with medication.
It’s not about labeling pain patients as addicts for taking medication to which they can build a physical dependence. (By that definition, every time I go on prednisone and have to taper off it, I’m a prednisone addict!)
It’s not about calling a patient in chronic pain asking their doctor for relief a drug-seeker.
The cure lies in combating the issues that lead to drug abuse, like poverty and an economy that sees the rich getting richer while the poor and middle class fall further and further behind. It lies in giving hope to people in hopeless situations. Not taking hope away from several million more.
Reblog to educate the normals. We need a cultural perception shift, and it needs to start now.
I make a hobby of watching documentaries about heroin (don’t ask) and all of them in recent years have a terrifying but obvious agenda: opioid pain reliever restriction.
They harp on the fact that a high percentage of heroin addicts began by taking prescription painkillers, but they never bring up how many prescription painkiller users become heroin users. Every time I watch one, they get to the part where addicts (current and recovering) talk about how they started on oxy/vic/perc after an injury and eventually moved to heroin, almost universally it’s because the pills got too hard to get, and I get irritated. Usually the pills are blamed for the transition to heroin, despite the fact that earlier in the documentaries the same individuals often speak about prior addictive behavior with pot and alcohol. (Very rarely is Purdue Pharma’s incredibly troubling insistence on misprescription addressed – and when it is, it too includes the “pain pills to heroin” narrative.)
Quick Google stats: there were 259 million painkiller prescriptions written in 2012. That same year heroin use was estimated at 2 people per 1000, meaning with a population of 314 million and given a likelihood of under-reporting, we had roughly 6-700 thousand heroin addicts in the US. At most, a million.
So even if many of those prescriptions were for the same people, and even if every single heroin addict was the direct result of a pain pill prescription (not super duper likely), the vast majority of people who got prescription painkillers somehow, magically, didn’t become addicted to heroin.
It’s almost like addiction involves multiple emotional, physical, genetic, and environmental factors that have nothing to do with prescription pain relief but opioids are an easy scapegoat for grieving families to pin their pain to.
I see the points being raised here, but at the same time as a massage therapist I feel like there should be different options for managing pain other than taking pills that have potential negative side effects (entirely separate from the issue of addiction, which is a very real thing: Vicodin was the gateway drug for my sister, who wound up killing herself).
What I would like to see happen is for insurance companies to start paying for complementary and alternative medicine–like massage and acupuncture–at the same rate that they have been prescribing opioids. There are so many other options out there and I really hope that this national conversation will push the medical field in that direction.
I would prefer insurance companies cover whatever helps people – but this isn’t the place to talk about that. We’re talking about people who have tried the other options and have been left with pain pills as a last option. I also know people who have addiction problems related to pain medication, and I’m sorry for your loss – but we should treat that with a better system for addiction, not by hurting chronic pain patients
“But people become dependent on these” well yeah because without them they have a very poor quality of life. It’s almost like people who take their prescriptions start feeling better and seeing improvements??? So they continue to take their prescriptions????
^^^ exactly. i’m dependent on not feeling like shit.
When I did the numbers on this the other day, using the National Pain Report’s numbers on chronic pain patients, and cross-checking them with the ADA’s numbers on other illnesses, what I came up with was this:
10K deaths from opioid pills specifically.
100 million Americans with chronic pain.
.0001 percent of Americans with chronic pain will die from opioid overdose.
That’s what is called “statistically insignificant.”
For perspective, a woman is twice as likely to die in childbirth in the developed world as a chronic pain patient is to die of an opioid overdose. Why aren’t we talking about the ‘epidemic’ of women dying in childbirth? You’re as likely to be killed by lightning which first hit someone else. WILL NO ONE THINK OF THE LIGHTNING EPIDEMIC?
For contrast, using the ADA’s numbers for diabetics n the US, .004 percent of diabetics die directly from complications of diabetes every year. While that’s still a tiny number compared to the population, not only is it orders of magnitude larger in percentages, but 65K people died from complications of diabetes.
Six and a half times as many! Six and a half!
And that’s not even talking about things like heart conditions and the like.
So I say this as a person who is currently and without shame on an opioid pain management plan (along with other solutions including massage, steroid shots, and other things that frankly aren’t anybody else’s business but whatever), and who has watched a very close friend lose her mother to diabetes complications this year… why are we okay with stigmatizing one medication (pain relief) over another type (insulin/diabetes).
Well, I mean, there really isn’t any money in “addiction counseling” for insulin. There are just deaths.
I wish people saw pain the same way, because pain will kill you too.
I’M DEPENDANT ON NOT FEELING LIKE SHIT! Oh my god. @painandcats Thank you for that sentence!!
20 years of “you’re too young to know what pain is”, “ I’m old and I have arthritis, you don’t know what pain is”, IT TOOK GETTING CANCER FOR MY FAMILY TO AGREE THAT I MIGHT BE IN PAIN. I have been disabled since I was 14 (or 6, depending on which pain related ailment you look at).
Now I have oxycodone. Now my home is clean. Now I am involved in caring for my son. Now I can walk my dogs. Now I can face the prospect of having a service dog. Now I can go to church regularly. Now I can be active in my church group. Now I can hang out with my friends without spending 3 days recovering.
Some light in the darkness that is Gaming news right now
gaming is SO IMPORTANT for so many disabled people (myself included). There’s not many hobbies that have the range of interactivity and engagement that gaming has, while still being something someone can do with little movement or motor control.
I’ve met a few people who were very disapproving of my gaming hobby (was literally told to “go read a book” in a snooty way by one of them) and it frustrates heck out of me that they can’t see how important and fun gaming can be. Gaming isn’t passive like a lot of other hobbies recommended for disabled folks. Gaming is something to get pumped about and something that you can get better at! You can improve your gaming skills and feel accomplished!
if it weren’t for video games I would be a much, much more unhappy and unfulfilled person.
This is why its SO important to make gaming accessible to disabled people.
This new ‘trend’ of strobing when hit [Destiny/Assassins’ Creed to name a few] is very detrimental to anyone with a seizure disorder that is effected by strobing. A lot of people with motor disorders often have visual disorders too.
Developers really need to make flashy visual effects optional or toggled on/off in menus; not left as a fixed point.
Gaming is SO important to help with my motor skills and comprehension skills and making it inaccessible to some audiences is really detrimental.
^^^Really important commentary
video games are sometimes the only thing that will help keep me sane.
I’m crying : ’ ). Videogames are important for all ages and degrees of abled people. My grandma definitely has kept a somewhat sharp mind since she plays golden sun and pokemon feverishly, though apparently she was stuck at the Sky Pillar in Ruby for two months (arthritis problems).
i just wish we could get more games that relied less on violence and fighting but Diablo fuckin rules and i’m so glad this person found a way to make it work for them.
we need to make sure all the disabled have the tools and support they need to live the lives they want to.
There is a charity called Able Gamers that helps people with varying disabilities and gives them the chance to play video games. They work both with caregivers, gamers themselves and video game developers (both indie and mainstream)to help make video games more accessible on a software level as well as through assistive technology like Ken here is using. I urge everyone to check them out and donate if possible or spread the word about their foundation!
I want to add my story to this. My disability is nowhere near as extreme as some of the other disabled gamers I can think of, but playing video games has made a tangible difference to my life.
I have a condition called Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congentia, and because of this I was born without thumb webs (along with other malformations to my fingers which were corrected by surgeries).
Other members of my family have the same condition and I am the only one who has survived my 20s with full dexterity in my thumbs. Why? Because my doctor suggested that my mother buy me a Gameboy in 1990(I was two).
Playing videogames has been legitimate, effective physiotherapy for my thumbs and fingers for 28 years. Videogames can change lives in all sorts of ways.
1. Fist: Make a fist around the epi-pen, don’t place your thumb/fingers over either end
2. Flick the blue cap off
3. Fire. Press down into the outer thigh (the big muscle in there), hold for 10 seconds before removing (the orange cap will cover the needle). Bare skin is best but the epi-pen will go through clothing. Avoid pockets and seams.
– Ring an ambulance even if everything seems to be fine!
Oh my god. So as someone who has to carry an epipen EVERYWHERE I am so happy to see that there’s an info post about them. Like in the extreme case that I can’t inject myself, somebody else would have to do it, but nobody knows how to do it! Thank you, this may just save my life some day.
Don’t be wimpy about it, either. I know friends who are like, “but idk if I could stab you with a needle!” Please stab me with the needle, don’t be hesitant about it.
In my case (I can’t speak for all allergies), an epi buys me 20 minutes of breathing to get to the hospital. It is not a magic bullet, it’s a few critical minutes to help get me where I need to go.
For those who don’t know, people with serious food allergies carry epinephrine which is an adrenaline shot just in case they have anaphylaxis, which is a life threatening allergic attack. This shot is life-saving and must be administered to someone who is having an anaphylactic attack as SOON AS POSSIBLE, because an extra waited minute could mean their life.
It doesn’t hurt much at all to use this needle. The first time I used mine, I didn’t even feel it. But be sure to stab it IN THE OUTER THIGH. Do not stick it anywhere else or you could seriously hurt or kill someone. Just right to the outside of the thigh and then call the ambulance – even if your friend starts doing better, they could have a biphasic reaction, meaning a reaction that comes back (or they may need a second dose, be on the look out). If your friend has an epipen, then they have an epipen trainer that doesn’t have a needle and you can try it out just to be sure you know how to use the real thing if you have to. I’d also advise holding it a few more seconds then 10, maybe go for 14 just to be sure all the medicine is administered and that you didn’t count too fast – that’s what I did.
Here’s a graphic of where to stick it:
THANK YOU FOR THE GRAPHIC I was about to ask because my mom carries one around and so do some of my friends and I wanted to make sure I would do it right if I ever needed to!
Learn about this or get a refresher, if you’re not already familiar.