who wants to hear the story about how a girl in my spanish 2 class fought back against the horrible spanish teacher and won
if this gets 2 notes i will tell it
one note is good enough for me.
so there’s this girl in my spanish 2 class. we’ll call her kayla.
kayla is a sophomore. she is funny and outspoken and a little crazy. the main thing to remember about kayla is that she will stand up for herself when needed. and that’s why something happened with her and my spanish teacher.
we’ll call my teacher miss irving. miss irving has been teaching spanish for 30 years. she’s a little forceful, hates technology, and hates when people don’t just listen to her without questioning it.
it began when kayla entered class late near the beginning of the school year. “sorry, ma’am,” she said to miss irving. “i was at the counselor’s.”
miss irving looked up at kayla and asked for a pass. kayla didn’t have one, but she said that miss irving would be able to call the counselor and the counselor would verify her visit. miss irving refused to do so and gave her detention on the spot. kayla started trying to justify her own actions, and she received yet another detention.
this marked the beginning of a long, long feud. every time kayla did something, miss irving would reprimand her for it. kayla put on chapstick or began to eat in class and miss irving began to yell. kayla read a paragraph slower than the rest of us and miss irving would snap at her. slowly, kayla began to get fed up.
the last straw for her was when she asked miss irving to go to the counselor during class, and it changed everything.
“miss irving? i have an appointment with the counselor down the hall. may i go?”
“obviously not,” my teacher snapped back. “you can’t leave in the middle of the class.”
“but i need to see her, i have an appointme-“
“i don’t care. you’re going to translate that paragraph-“
“ma’am, i already translated it-“
“well, then i’ll give you more work to do-“
“no.”
at that word, all of the heads in the clasroom turned. it’s an unspoken rule that you don’t say no to miss irving. but kayla had fire in her voice, and was now standing up and glaring at the teacher.
“excuse me?” miss irving responded, and kayla went off.
“no matter what i do, you get on to me about it. i have issues that i need to take care of that you refuse to understand. you’re a teacher. you’re supposed to care about us. it’s your job! listen to me carefully: i. have. mental. health. problems. and there are times i need to eat in class or i need to go to the counselor’s office because of it, so could you just get off of my ass about it and try to understand?”
miss irving turned beet red and sent her to the principal’s office.
what followed was a battle between the two. miss irving kept emailing kayla’s parents, but kayla’s parents took their daughter’s side. then my teacher emailed kayla’s other teachers and asked them to take her side, but the other teachers said they didn’t ever have problems with kayla.
kayla went to talk to the principal about the situation and told her what was going on. the principal talked to miss irving, and miss irving lost her teacher of the year award for that year. she also received a strike on her teaching record for refusing to respect a student’s mental health protocol. and kayla won.
miss irving still teaches our class and we still have kayla with us. now, miss irving doesn’t hide her hatred for kayla at all. she expresses it fully to her other classes. and most of those other classes hate her as well.
but my class and i love kayla. because kayla has a newfound power, and she doesn’t take it for granted. instead, she uses it to help us.
and this matters so much to me because, one day, she helped me.
i have generalized anxiety disorder. one of the methods i can use to calm myself down is by doodling, and doodling also helps me listen more closely to the teacher’s lesson. so i started doodling on the edges of my papers in spanish a lot, especially when we started having tests every class period and it became very anxiety-inducing for me.
miss irving started taking points off for every doodle i made. and i mean A LOT of points. i drew an eye in the corner of a worksheet once and i got an 80 instead of a 100. when i tried to explain that it was for my anxiety, she didn’t care. so now i had even more anxiety because i couldn’t reduce my anxiety.
one day, miss irving was lecturing and i was doodling, when she started to yell at me for it.
i can’t remember a lot about what happened because at that moment i went into a full blown panic attack. but what i do remember is kayla standing up and yelling at her.
“what are you doing? stop! she’s obviously having a panic attack!”
she came over to my desk and led me through breathing exercises. calmed me down. told me my doodle of half a face looked really good, asked me how long i’d been taking art and about my disorder. the entire class was silent, watching, and miss irving was fuming.
when i was calm enough to, i thanked kayla, and she squeezed my hand in a silent alliance.
then miss irving walked back to the whiteboard and never said anything about my doodles again.
the moral of the story? just because a teacher or principal or parent is older than you doesn’t mean they deserve to be obeyed no matter what. if what your “elders” say to you or do to you belittles you, tears you down, or keeps you from being able to get help or be a better person, they are not doing their job, and you can stand up for yourself and others.
don’t be afraid to question the authority just because they say they shouldn’t be questioned.
Kayla’s a fucking hero
fuck miss. irving. she shouldn’t have a job as a teacher.
i saw this post earlier about therapists and it reminded me of my old therapist paul, who in my opinion is one of the greatest men alive and who did not put up with my bullshit for even one second
anyway i go in to see paul one week in the summer of 2016, and i’m doing my usual bullshit which consists of me talking shit about myself, and paul is staring at me, and then he cuts me off and says that he’s got a new tool for helping people recognize when they’re using negative language, and gets up and goes over to his desk
and i’m like alright hit me with that sweet sweet self-help article my man, because i’m a linguistic learner and whenever paul’s like here i have a tool for you to use it’s pretty much always an article or a book or something
paul opens a drawer, takes something out, and turns back around. i stare.
i say, paul.
is that a nerf gun.
yeah, says paul.
i say, are you gonna shoot me with a nerf gun in this professional setting.
he happily informs me that that’s really up to me, isn’t it. and sits back down. and gestures, like, go ahead, what were you saying?
and i squint suspiciously and start back up about how i’m having too much anxiety to leave the house to run errands, like it was a miracle to even get here, like i’ve forgone getting groceries for the past week and that’s so stupid, what a stupid issue, i’m an idiot, how could i–
a foam dart hits me in the leg.
i go, hey! because my therapist just shot me in the leg. paul blinks at me placidly and raises an eyebrow. i squint again.
i say, slowly, it’s– not a stupid issue, i’m not stupid, but it’s frustrating me and i don’t want it to be a problem i’m having.
no dart this time. okay. sweet.
so the rest of the hour passes with me intermittently getting nailed with tiny foam darts and then swearing and then fixing my language and, wouldn’t you know it, i start liking myself a little more by the end of the session, which is mildly infuriating because paul can tell and he’s very smug about it
anyway i leave his office and the lady having the next appointment walks in and i hear what’s all over the floor? and paul very seriously says cognitive behavioral therapy tools.
The “I won’t hesitate, bitch” vine but @ friends who don’t love themselves
why do they keep using the same actors in space movies??? @nasa is this some kind of a conspiracy??? are you planning to actually send matt damon into space???????? don’t do it
//quietly continues thinking about how easy tom hardy’s Venom could slip into the current MCU and how interesting of a dynamic he’d have with everyone!!!!!! (this is a continuation of this post)
In which Peter’s showing Eddie around and they run into Tony.
Eddie: okay, so we are not joining the Avengers and we also have a son now I guess
Peter Parker ft. his two super dads that do not get along even a little bit. Eddie’s probably done an exposé
on Tony before and I like to imagine that’s what made him leave New York and settle down in Cali :^)c
Hey guys I just finished datamining the tumblr app and found out some info on future updates @staff has in the works
Like what?
ok so the first thing I found was that they’re adding a new dislike button:
based on what I saw, tumblr’s dislike button works a little differently than typical dislike buttons. in addition to showing the number of dislikes on a post, if a user ever gets any more than 3 dislikes in total they will have their blog deleted immediately. this may seem harsh at first glance but I trust that the tumblr community wouldn’t abuse this power so this is a good change.
I swear if this is true I will have a panic attack I do not want my blog deleted
If it was true probably all the blogs with more than like 1000 followers would just vanish in minutes.
I noticed a lot of you guys were upset with this change to the app and I understand completely.
another thing I found out about this update is actually kind of cool though, soon we’re going to be able to change other people’s profile pictures. I’m not really sure why we’re being given this ability but I’m never one to complain about a new feature!
so you know how when you click on your avatar you see this:
…well now if you click on someone else’s avatar you can actually do this:
I’d like to personally ask my followers not to change MY profile pic, but this feature is pretty cool if you ask me because we can do stuff like this now lol:
please do not tarnish my credibility I have worked for a long time to establish myself as a very good dataminer here on this site.
anyway so the next thing I discovered is a pretty big change, they’re getting rid of gif posts. I’m honestly a bit disappointed about this one because I thought gif posts were cool but I guess it’s fine.
the weird thing though is that they’re not just getting rid of gif posts, they’re replacing them with a new type of post:
they’re changing gif to piss.
the first question I had was why? why change gif to piss???? you can never really predict what @staff will do next huh.
I’m not sure what the new piss post button does but I guess we’ll all find out when they release the update, probably without any warning. nothing we can do about that, with us just being the users of this site and all. we’ll just have to learn to accept it like always!
I know all my followers would hit the dislike button immediately, getting rid of my blog forever.
y’all are still upset about the dislike button? I understand and all but they’re changing gif to piss I think that’s a pretty big deal.
but, I get it. it’s frustrating when this app is updated with random features we can’t turn off, and it makes one feel like they don’t really matter to whoever programs this site.
but,
there’s one last thing I found out about the upcoming update. it’s a small change, but I think we can all agree it will make this website much better. I saved this for last because I wanted to end the post on a happy note.
hit us with that good news goldie
after years of us waiting, @staff finally listened to us on one thing. they’re changing “notes” to “goats”, and that’s something worth celebrating.
when i was younger i had a really bad fear of markiplier when i was going to sleep so my older brother gave me a watch that he set to like 8 hours ahead so that it was always daytime on the watch when i was asleep and he told me it would confuse markiplier and he would think it was daytime and get scared of the sun and leave me alone
Your brother is the best
Who the fuck changed this from vampires to Markiplier
the real question is why I was completely ready to accept that this person had a debilitating childhood fear of Markiplier
Who the fuck changed this from Danny devito to markiplier
A Glitch Named Anti 