i wonder how aware tom holland and rdj are about how popular irondad and spiderson are. like i just checked and “tony stark & peter parker” is in the top 10 most popular relationships on ao3 in the mcu, and 2nd most popular platonic ship (behind bucky barnes & steve rogers). do they know that there has almost never been a paternal ship so popular in a fandom? are they even aware of it’s existence??