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succubarbie:

we need to teach women that it’s ok for them not to become mothers because if i see any more bad moms movies coming out and keep seeing sitcoms about moms who hate their children and hate being moms i’m gonna scream like its not ok to bring a child into this world just to turn them into a traumatized adult, being a mother is about putting all your time and energy into a growing and vulnerable human being and if you’re not ready to do that, don’t become a mom.. you can lead a perfectly happy and fulfilling life without having a child just to traumatize them and make both you and your children’s lives miserable

And wtf is with parents pressuring people who don’t want kids into having kids? “Oh you’ll never know a love like this; it’s so rewarding; you should do it.” Like … What? I love my kids and all, but any time I hear a friend thinking about having kids based on how cute mine are I’m always like “ARE YOU SURE THIS IS THE MOST DIFFICULT THING YOU WILL EVER DO IN YOUR LIFE AND IT IS SO EASY TO FUCK THEM UP AND IT WILL STIR UP ALL YOUR CHILDHOOD TRAUMA AND YOU SHOULD PROBABLY BE IN THERAPY SO YOU’RE WORKING ON YOUR SHIT AND NOT PUTTING IT ON THEM AND ALSO GET READY TO NEVER SLEEP AS WELL AGAIN.”